Oprah shares an amazing insight into her life. http://www.facebook.com/successnation She will explain, why u can't get what you want in life. God can dream a bigger dream for me, for you than you can ever do for yourself. When you have works as hard and done as much and strived and tried and given and plead and bargained and hoped.......Surrender.... When you have done all that you can do, and there is nothing left for you to do. Give it up. Give it up to that thing that is greater than yourself and let it then become a part of the flow.