Wednesday, October 16, 2013


A letter to a friend:

It saddens me to see you so miserable, but a lot of your misery, I believe, is connected to being so concerned with what everyone feels and thinks about you. So much so, every decision in your life is based on having the approval of others. This approach does not reflect the truth of your inner life, therefore creating misery. I will tell you this, I have learned that just because something has been done a certain way for a long time does not mean that it's thee appropriate approach for you. Conditions and traditions are great when they work. When they don't, I believe it's important to muster the strength to create the dynamics that specifically work for the experience we desire to create and is unique to our lives, and it almost never reflects what is "accepted". Who said OUR decisions, OUR lives must look like anyone else's?

Be your own opinion leader and let your approval, in regard to your own life, be enough:)

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